Tricks of a First Time Mom
There are little tricks here and there that I’ve found to be very effective in helping boost Em’s imaginary and memory skills.
Par example, every night, we have a routine of telling stories, usually alternating story tellers. I do this so she can think on her feet and create a story line with cause and effect. She is amazing with adding twists to the plot. For example, she’ll create a villain, a baby dragon, who usually gets "palo" because of its inability to share. But after the hero/heroine defeats the baby dragon and all seems well in Emma kingdom, the Mama Dragon appears, with thrice the anger and revenge over her emotionally wrecked offspring. I mean, talk about re-Grendel-ling the storyline!!!!! C’mon, and she’s never taken highschool english lit. It’s great…I laugh at her creativity.
For her memory skills, each night, I usually slip in a lesson and trick her into conversation rather than school time, by asking her key questions about her day. This way, she’s forced into recalling specific things that happened. I also use key words like today and yesterday to teach her about the progression of time and its state. I find this a really good technique that I’ve made into a routine so not only does her memory grow, it allows her to capture things that happened that she might have merely forgotten, had I not urged her to remember them.
Again, I can’t stress routine enough. This has really brought us closer, this night time routine of conversation, not to mention the time I get to hear her pray and have her hear me pray for her.

I like the idea of story telling.. Hong’s has a big imagination.. so using this method will help him expand it further.
I cannot agree with you more about routine and repetition.
October 2nd, 2008 at 5:43 pm